When one changes, your reality and world changes all around you. Relationships are the biggest test to face when a person starts to live a heart based life. When a person’s heart becomes the embodiment of open expansion- love is the only essence that surrounds and fills you. What is no longer for your highest good will be tested. Everything else needs to be jolted into high gear to align up with your vibration of pure love. Everything else may fall away, or, will need to be equalized and calibrated in a new way. Experiences may become out of tune with that fundamental alignment of love you are building. You are shedding layers of the old you that no longer serve you. You will be tested. Especially when it comes to relationships – as this is our biggest growth potential. Everyone is a fragment of your inner growth in this life time.
I think of it as tuning into a radio station. If you are out of tune, it sounds something like this…
Does someone push your buttons, or, do you like to provoke someone’s tender spots? Do you like to be in control of others, or, do you let others control you? Do you easily feel intimidated by another, or, do you like intimidating others when in ones presence? Does someone bully you, or, do you feel the need to bully others? Do you feel jealousy or anger towards a person, or, do you feel that someone is angry or jealous of you? Do you fall into a place of criticism, judgement or gossip towards another, or, do you feel people gossip, criticize and judge you? Do you feel superior, or, inferior to someone? Do you let your ego run wild when you are in the presence of someone?
Ask yourself why you are feeling these feelings? Why are these feelings coming up for you? Are you in tune with all you know that you can be Alive to be? These feelings are a bridge to a brighter future – that are waiting for you – to open – right in front of you. These feelings are a gift to become Alive in Soul. It is all about how you pave the way to get there. Are you ready for the challenge?
When you are in tune, and you landed at the perfect radio station, it sounds something like this…
Freedom from judgement. LOVE. Confidence. LOVE. Inner beauty. LOVE. The ability to speak your truth. LOVE. Grace and ease. LOVE. Flow. LOVE. Connection. LOVE. Kindness. LOVE. Freedom.LOVE. Compassion. LOVE. Joy. LOVE. Unconditional love for others. LOVE.
To tune into the essence of love in your relationships, it is quite simple. There are no attachments- no conditions- just simple gestures of love to flow freely in and through you to another – that is it. The essence of love is embodied to out-pour love to others with NO CONDITIONS. Pure unconditional love flourishes the essence of your relationships.
Relationships are an opportunity to tune in, to the new you. Do you find that urge to hold onto a relationship even though it may be toxic? Do you easily feel drained after having a conversation or visit with someone? Do you just stay in a relationship for the fear of judgement? Ask yourself, why is that so? There is a reason. These are building blocks to living a heart based life. This is your starting ground. Don’t judge yourself if you feel all of these feelings. We are all human. We have feelings. We feel emotion and our body and heart shows us what we need to work on. Embrace and feel the hurt. Sit with these uncomfortable feelings. For when you face the hurt and you can look at yourself in the mirror and truly proclaim and be love isn’t that what life is all about? So why not look into the mirror of what others are reflecting within you? Is that reflection positive or unsettling? Your relationships will paint a picture where your soul is asking you to take a deeper look.
Relationships offer the tune up of who you are meant to become. Let that be the starting ground for your expansion- to expand that Aliveness that is dormant within. Open that dormant state of your heart and freedom will open up the Aliveness of your soul.