When perspectives grow and shifts are viewed from a different angle – our dependency adjusts in a fluid way.
When we have a dependence, we associate our thinking to external factors. For example, we may come to depend on a person, place or thing unconciously. We don’t know why, but we focus all our efforts on this particular outlet if you will to fill up our heart and soul. Imagine if you will, as it being like a cord that is linked from this person, place or thing that feeds your concious self. You start to create a chain, like handcuffs, to this feeding source of dependency. The bonds keep growing stronger and stronger and the dependency becomes so deep that you do not understand what independence looks and feels like. In my personal experience, for me, I came to release that social media was a dependency on which was an external remedy of dependency for my soul. I soon came to release that this chain needed to be broken. So as I unwinded the dependency for external validation, I was also reminded how I can have a sense of independence to feel the love of the aliveness of the my heart and soul. I can not define this for you. This is something for you to observe and contemplate for you yourself – within your self. This requires self examination and truth in the work of inner discovery. However raw the wounds are – it is a call to find freedom in dependence.
Once we learn to break the chain if you will of dependency, independence follows. Independence is a gateway to your soul. It helps to serve as the doorway to your unlimited expansion. For example in my case in being completely truthful and honest, I felt a sense of validation of who I am. A sense of belonging. But than, it dawned on me about independence- in a new moment of perspective. Why am I putting my self worth of validation by the amount of likes or friends I have? What external gain is warranted in this mindframe of thinking? Is this something I was insecure with, within my self and why? When these questions begin to start that is when the journey from dependence to independence begins. If your soul already knows you don’t need outside validation and IS the essence of validation, than the means in my case was a social media tool creating a reflection of how I need to create more ways of self validation within my being. These are the wounds of dependence that I learned needed tending too. As you step outside of dependence, you come to know what independence feels like all over again. Now being completely honest with yourself what dependence are you holding onto? How can you find that independence in the heart of it all?
Going beyond dependence and independence, we learn that these are 3D conditioned behaviours as well. Our soul does not differentiate the two, but only knows of oneness. As you start to move past the door of independence, you may come to know that you are holding onto vital imprints and lessons that need love and light. Your soul is asking you to say goodbye to these imprints. These conditons that define you. When you completely set yourself free from these conditions, you start to move past independence and into transcendence of oneness. Dependency and independence no longer exist. A vibration of oneness than opens up in your being on a 5D reality and beyond. Remember that as your perception opens and as you perspective begins to shift, that is when new levels of experiences are granted to you. No level is higher or greater. No comparison is needed from one soul to another. So if your level of conciousness is expanded, like the level of conciousness of Buddha or Jesus experienced, it is no better than the beings of souls that stand before you in your reality. They are all perect. They are all divinely orchestrated on your dimensional level of reality your soul set out to experience.
Our job as soul imprinted beings is to find the oneness in the midst of learning about dependency (external) and independence (internal). In learning the external and internal factors, an elevator shift of oneness bridges into your perception and extends our into your everyday human level experience. When oneness manifests, equality of oneness is the greatest gift of your heart and soul. The Aliveness of your heart and soul further propels you forward to the calling of your soul.